If you're thinking, “Not every woman can squirt,” or “I certainly can't,” you're incorrect. You are capable of doing it and have likely not yet discovered the appropriate method. Squirting is liberation in the bedroom. Our vaginas can also ejaculate, and in this regard, we are in no way inferior to men.
Summary:
- Squirting is not a myth, and every one of us can do it!
- Although the fluid flows out of the urethra during squirting, it is not urine!
- Some women have an orgasm when they squirt, others do not and simply experience the sensation of squirting itself.
1. Squirting: What is it?
Many women find the topic of squirting exciting, but don't know how to do it or simply don't dare to try it. However, many say that the experience is worth trying.
Unlike orgasms, which often go up and down like a roller coaster, squirting is more of a feeling of letting go.
2. What happens during squirting?
For those who are new to squirting and may need a brief theoretical introduction to what exactly happens:
From a purely technical point of view, stimulating the G-spot causes the paraurethral gland, also known as Skene's gland, to fill up. This is a sponge-like structure that absorbs the fluid known as female secretion. So when a woman squirts, this mixture consisting of uric acid (no, not pee) flows out of the urethra. But not, as some men assume, from the vaginal canal.
3. Squirting = Myth?
The internet is full of tutorials on how to make someone else squirt. We believe that you know best how to do it yourself and will probably be more successful on your own at first. And only do it for yourself if you really want to. There is absolutely no point in chasing a sex trend or trying to please your partner with it. It's much more worthwhile to do it for yourself. So go for it.
Oh, and if you think that squirting means spraying urine, you're wrong. Ejaculate (yay, equality) is not pee, but a secretion that has no smell and is relatively clear. So definitely not pee.
Disclaimer: Squirting is for more experienced women. That means if you've just learned to walk, you can try ballet, but you'll have a hard time. So if you've just had your first experiences with your sexuality, you can of course experiment with squirting, but don't be disappointed if it doesn't work right away.
4. How to ...
1. Rules for sexy time:
Take your time to “practice” squirting and find a moment when you are relaxed. Don't let yourself be disturbed, put your phone on silent, close the door. Think warm thoughts. Maybe think about your partner's scent, or get yourself hot with femtasy... Try to breathe slowly and calmly, this will relax your body and all the wonderful muscles in your pelvic floor. Be patient and don't expect too much! It may not work right away.
2. Preparation is everything:
Lubricant can help make it more comfortable. Sometimes our magical fluid leaves us sooner than we would like. So keep lubricant or a pleasant body oil made from natural ingredients handy. Natural lubricants are the best because they do not contain any harmful potential irritants and many are even vegan.
Prepare a large waterproof love blanket and slide it under your pelvis. Many women also feel inhibited by the load that may leave your body in a rather uncontrolled manner. We women are simply not used to squirting bodily fluids around during sex. Everything waterproof? Then let's go!
3. Find the G-Spot:
Are you relaxed and feeling a little horny? Then you can start with your usual routine. Massage your vulva and labia and touch whatever feels good. Take your time with this step—the more time you spend here, the more likely you are to squirt later.
The G-spot is located 2-3 cm inside the vaginal opening, on the wall of the vagina facing the abdomen. You will feel a spongy texture there that is different from the rest of the vaginal skin. Some people find that the skin there feels a bit like the skin of an orange. Feel free to press around a bit or circle the spot to find it—after all, your vagina isn't that fragile! But be gentle with yourself! So get an overview of the textures in your wonderful vagina!
Lost in paradise? Then change positions—sometimes it works better in a squatting position or when you're kneeling.
4. Massage your G-spot:
You may want to use lubricant at this point to make things slide more easily! It also makes it more comfortable. If you haven't already done so, insert two fingers into your moist vagina. Use your ring and middle fingers or your middle and index fingers. They are long enough to reach and stimulate your G-spot.
Why fingers and not a toy to squirt? We think it's better to start with your fingers so you can feel what's happening in your vagina. More direct and honest! But in the end, it's up to you. Once you have some practice, feel free to grab the toy. For example, the SquirterPro dildo.
Start circling your G-spot, stroking it, and pressing against it a little. Take your time with this game of teasing, stroking, and stimulating. Always be gentle with yourself! #lifetimegoal
When your G-spot is stimulated, it will become larger and harder over time. A lump the size of a walnut or hazelnut. Then you know you're on the right track! Not yet, but the best conditions for squirting. You don't feel anything? Or is it just uncomfortable? Then postpone your session, maybe it will work better next time. Reward yourself for your training with an orgasm.
5. Relax, push, let go – squirt:
If you notice that your G-spot is getting bigger and harder, you're on the right track. Don't give up now. Sooner or later, you'll usually get the feeling that you urgently need to pee. That's a good sign! Because now you're about to squirt. But don't tense up now, stay relaxed.
Easier said than done. Do you feel like you want to push? Then push gently without tensing up, otherwise it won't work! So keep going, breathe easily, and push a little! Admittedly, this is probably the most difficult part. For some women, it takes a while for the knot to burst because the feeling of needing to go to the bathroom is rarely associated with an erotic situation.
5. Tips & Tricks
Another tip: Sometimes your finger or the toy covers the urethra. Then, of course, nothing can flow! If you use two fingers, try a (narrow) peace sign. Peace!
At first, you will probably only get a few drops. But then you will know how it works in principle and can squirt in stages. Some women have an orgasm while squirting, others don't and just experience the sensation of squirting. Both are perfectly fine. Think of it as squirt training. It gets a little better each time. Don't expect too much the first time (oh yes, how true). We hope you enjoy what is surely one of the hottest workouts ever.